Monday, October 26, 2009

Healthy and Youthful Thoughts

I came across this in a newsgroup.


Feeling sick? Feeling down? Feeling old? Feeling not-so-good? Well, according to Deepak Chopra MD, and many Quantum physicists, such feelings are only that - feelings! Here are some points to consider that can help you to change your body by changing your thoughts and beliefs.


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The physical world, including your body, is the response of the observer. In other words, there is nothing in the perceived, three dimensional reality that exists aside from your perception. We are unconscious participants in a shared and fictitious belief that sickness and aging are inevitable and "just the way things are".
There are no truly solid elements in the physical world. Even the most solid atom is comprised of a nucleus and orbitals that are themselves pure energy. Solidity, as we suppose it to be, is the product of particles of pure energy.
The distance between the nuclei of any two atoms is proportionately more distant from each other than the distance between two galaxies. The space in between them is alive with pure Consciousness, Thus, YOU are comprised of 99.999 % pure Consciousness, and the remaining portion of your self is pure energy. The only SOLID force about you is the presence of Universal Consciousness with which you are inseparably ONE. Your control over the condition of your physical body is completely reflective of your self concept as it expresses itself through your thoughts, emotions, and beliefs.
Therefore: Your ARE what you think, feel, and believe yourself to be. To change the condition of your body, allow yourself to change your personal paradigm to envision-feel-believe yourself as perfectly healthy, perfectly youthful, perfectly well in all ways. As you allow this new paradigm to more and more over-take your old perceptions, you will experience the manifestation of your improving conditions as your subconscious mind comes to accept your renewed and improving, preferred physical condition.
The concept of "time" is the product of collective concept as accepted by your belief. There is no time aside from the perception of time. The body of a newly born baby is not "new" at all. It is composed of atoms that have existed and been circulating throughout the universe in differing forms for trillions of years. If we could all preserve our immune systems to remain in the conditions that they are born in, our average life span would exceed 300 years. What makes the baby's body "young" is the unseen intelligence that has come together to form this new expression of Universal Consciousness.
YOU are now even more alive with this same Consciousness than you were at the moment of your birth. YOU carry within yourself right now the same conscious intelligence that formed your body following conception.
IT has not aged, and cannot age.
IT cannot become sick.
IT cannot become emotionally depressed.
IT is eternally youthful.
IT abides in perpetual health.
IT knows only joy and oneness with God and The Universe.
............................. And YOU are IT.

HAPPINESS ON HOLD

HAPPINESS ON HOLD
by Crystal Boyd 1998

We convince ourselves that life will be better
After we get married
Have a baby
Then another
Then we are frustrated
That the kids aren't old enough
And we'll be more content when they are grown.
After that, we're frustrated
That we have teenagers to deal with
We will certainly be happy
When they are out of that stage.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete
When our spouse gets his or her act together
When we get a nicer car
Are we able to go on a nice vacation
Or when we retire.
The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now
If not now, when?
Your life will always be filled with challenges
It's best to admit this to yourself
And decide to be happy anyway.
Happiness is the way.
So, treasure every moment that you have
And treasure it more because
You shared it with someone special
Special enough to spend your time with
And remember that time waits for no one.
So, stop waiting until your car
Or home is paid off
Until you get a new car or home
Until your kids leave the house
Until you go back to school
Until you finish school
Until you lose 10 lbs
Until you gain 10 lbs.
Until you get married
Until you get a divorce
Until you have kids
Until you retire
Until summer
Until spring
Until winter
Until fall
Until you die.
There is no better time than right now to be happy
Happiness is a journey, not a destination
So work like you don't need money
Love like you've never been hurt
And dance like no one's watching.

God's Cake

I read this at a newsgroup and don't know who the author is. I just found it to be very enlightening.


Sometimes we wonder, "What did I do to deserve this?" or "Why did God have to do this to me?" Here is a wonderful explanation!
A daughter is telling her Mother how everything is going wrong, she's failing algebra, her boyfriend broke up with her and her best friend is moving away.
Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake and asks her daughter if she would like a snack, and the daughter says,
"Absolutely Mom, I love your cake."
“Here, have some cooking oil," her Mother offers.
"Yuck" says her daughter.
"How about a couple raw eggs?"
"Gross, Mom!"
"Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?"
"Mom, those are all yucky!"
To which the mother replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves. But when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake!
God works the same way. Many times we wonder why He would let us go through such bad and difficult times. But God knows that when He puts these things all in His order, they always work for good! We just have to trust Him and, eventually, they will all make something wonderful!
God is crazy about you. He sends you flowers every spring and a sunrise every morning.
Whenever you want to talk, He'll listen. He can live anywhere in the universe, and He chose your heart.”
If you like this, send this on to the people you really care about. I did.
I hope your day is a "piece of cake!"
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance!

Be Not Afraid

I don't recall where I came across this, but I liked and found it worthwhile to share.

BE NOT AFRAID

To walk through the darkness - for therein you may find the light;
To take one step at a time - for only then can you complete the journey;
To question - for there you will find the truth;
To hope - from that a dream can grow;
To believe - otherwise, there is nothing;
To trust - for it is the basic element of all relationships;
To give - for in doing so, you shall be given;
To remember - for memories are proof that you have lived;
To cry - tears are a source of healing;
To hurt - from that can come growth;
To laugh - your inner beauty is reflected then;
To start again - there is a chance this time will be even better;
To be independent - for only then will you find yourself;
To set new goals - for then your existence will take on mean¬ing;
To share - for happiness is nothing if it's yours alone;
To open the closed door - perhaps what was behind it has changed;
To take a chance - new worlds have been discovered this way;
To, at times, despair - for only then do we appreciate;
To re-examine yourself- for death sets in when growth stops;
To face each new day - if you choose, God will walk beside you each hour;
To make promises - they are the foundations of life;
To plant a small seed - from it the majestic tree grows;
To touch someone - who knows how that small action may change your lives;
To love - for only in that way will you be loved;
To live - only then will past relationships be meaningful;
To die - for therein lies eternal life.

By Elaine Slater Reese

Friendship

1. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you..
2. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.
3. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches your heart.
5. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.
6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
8. Don't waste your time on a man/woman, who isn't willing to waste their time on you.
9. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
10. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
11. There's always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust next time around.
12. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect them to know you.
13. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

Saturday, October 24, 2009

Top 6 Breakup Questions and Answers

Top 6 Breakup Questions and Answers
By Ramon Johnson

Before you box up all of those Valentine's and birthday presents, let Mona Lisa consoles your gay breakup woes. Here are the top breakup questions and answers.

1. He Just Wants to Be Friends
What do you do when he just wants to be friends? See how a lesson in slot machines can help you cope with the loss of a love.

2. See the Lesson in a Dead End Relationship
Do you have a bad or dead end relationship and now have regrets? Learn the lessons from the past and turn your bad relationship into a bright future.

3. I'm Straight, My Gay Ex Boyfriend Wants to be Friends
No one likes to be lied to or enter into a relationship based on deceit- especially one that involves a partner that's not exactly who he presented himself to be. You broke up with him because you thought he was straight, but he's actually gay. Should you still be his friend?

4. How To End a Relationship And Keep Your Dignity
The relationship between you and your boo not working out? Take the first step to freedom and learn how to end a relationship. Before You Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend

5. Before You Get Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend
Consider these three things before getting back together with your ex boyfriend.

6. Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends
The hurt of a bad breakup won't instantly fade, but there are a few things you can do to minimize the damage. Read the essentail break up survival kit!

Top 10 Gay Love Lessons

Top 10 Gay Love Lessons
By Ramon Johnson

Even the top gay juans among us need lessons in gay love. Unfortunately, there is no instruction manual that keeps us from making fatal relationship mistakes. Rest assured, Gay Life love master, Mona Lisa, is here to save homoships everywhere.
1. Save Yourself First
One of your most important lessons you'll ever hear is broadcast in the safety message of every commercial flight. By making this message your life motto you can save your relationship (and your life).


2. Top 5 Craziest Things You Can Do To Get a Guy
Our crushes can be so deep we'll scale walls to get a guy. But how high is too high when it comes to snagging the man you like? These are the craziest things you can do to get a guy.

3. Top 4 Cheap Ways to Show Him You Care
You don't have to be a baller or have an affinity for bling to show your man you care. If your special someone is on your mind, don't wait for his birthday or an anniversary. Give him these cheap gifts and score enough points to last you a lifetime.

4. My Partner Left Me With Bad Credit
Protect yourself from ending a relationship with bad credit. Also learn how to repair any financial disaster.

5. Overcoming Fears of Rejection
Many gay men hide behind their computers because of a common fear of rejection. We all have fears, but how do you overcome them. A little practice can take you from loner to socialite.

6. Pick Up Lines: Making the Most of the First Minute
Sometimes its hard to maintain your pick-up artist consciousness. Learn how to make the most of your pick up line in the first minute.

7. How To Turn a Straight Guy Gay?
Is it possible to turn a straight guy gay or are you wasting your time trying to keep him from a hetero fate? See what Mona has to say.

8. Tips for the Gay and Lonely
Many gay men are overcome with loneliness when they first come out. Find out how to stop feeling lonely and start living.

9. The Balance of Power in Relationships
The balance of power in relationships is never resolved in the struggle, only in the peace. Do you have the stamina to solve the push pull of your relationship?

10. How To Steal a Gay Kiss
So you’ve been chatting up a guy you like and now you want to take matters to the next level and engineer that first kiss. But how do you overcome the natural uncertainty and resistance?