Gay men, the internet and sex have become synonymous over the years. But what about the many men who turn to the net for love and relationships? Often times it's all in the presentation. Have you ever been to the grocery store looking for a certain product and debated over what brand to buy (especially if you don't have a favorite)? Some of us choose based on the nutritional value or cost alone, but most of us are drawn to the packaging and description of the product and then evaluate the supporting information. Imagine if your favorite cereal came in a white box with no graphics or explanation of what was inside. No matter how good or bad it was, you probably wouldn't buy it.
The same holds true for online profiles. No matter what the reputation of the site, profiles serve as a first impression and allow other men to build a story about who you are as a person (am I'm not just talking about the physical). How you present yourself on the shelf can make all the difference between snagging your dream lover or enjoying 15 minutes of fame. Here's how you can turn a hook up site into a dating haven.
A PICTURE CAN SPEAK A THOUSAND REJECTIONS!
Even the most gory of movies never show the most graphic scene on the DVD cover. They leave something to mystery, plus they don't want to scare potential viewers away. A man who values an intellectual thriller is not likely to rent a movie with exposed intestine on the cover.
Keep the intrigue by saving the details until you and your dream man are intimate for the first time. Show a little chest or even a leg, but if you wouldn't show it in public don't show it online. By keeping your pics on the PG-17 or R-rated scale you're showing your suitor that you're about more than just about sex. Graphic shots may get more quantity, but it's the quality of man you're looking for.
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